They donโt really come with a User Manual and at best of times it is frustrating that you are unable to understand your angel. Sometimes self-doubt creeps in and you wonder if you are doing the right thing. I have learnt that instinct is the best teacher and the rest are just rules.
I found this that I had copied from somewhere (I canโt even remember where) many years before I even had my own kids. It just seemed something wonderful and I found it again today after many years and I am so proud to say I have done almost everything on this list. Itโs not a rule list. Itโs just something nice to do with your kids, for your kids. Enjoyโฆ
- Be there
- Say yes as often as possible
- Let them bang on pots and pans
- If they are crabby put them in water
- If they are unloveable, love yourself
- Realise how important it is to be a child
- Go to a movie theatre in your pyjamas
- Read books out loud with joy
- Invent pleasures together
- Remember how really small they are
- Giggle a lot
- Surprise them
- Say no when necessary
- Teach feelings
- Heal your own inner child
- Learn about parenting
- Hug trees together
- Make loving safe
- Bake a cake and eat it with no hands
- Go find elephants and kiss them
- Plan to build a rocket-ship
- Imagine yourself magic
- Make lots of forts with blankets
- Let your angel fly
- Reveal your own dreams
- Search out the positive
- Keep the gleam in your eye
- Mail letters to God
- Encourage silly
- Plant licorice in your garden
- Open up
- Stop yelling
- Express your love a lot
- Speak kindly
- Paint their tennis shoes
- Handle with caring
CHILDREN ARE MIRACULOUS