Deactivating My Facebook Accountย 

I’m increasingly tempted to delete my personal Facebook account.  This thing of constantly looking down at a screen and not making eye contact or really being with people is making me question things. I am surrounded by people who would rather look at posts and pictures instead of come to my home.  I feel I’m losing touch with humans.  On the other hand, the people … Continue reading Deactivating My Facebook Accountย 

When you finally allow your kids to have a Facebook account

  Last week, as we were still nursing hangovers and trying to stop being in denial that 2016 was finally here, I decided to allow my daughter to have a Facebook account. Sheโ€™s fifteen now and I have held out for as long as I could, keeping her away from social media. Many of her friends and cousins have been allowed to have social media … Continue reading When you finally allow your kids to have a Facebook account

Hopefully this is a year of looking up…

Iโ€™m not going to be nauseatingly positive and tell you what measures you should take in life to make it better and what not. I think we have many Oprah and Deepak Chopra wannabes around us who love to tell us how life should be led and they are in fact amongst the most dysfunctional people otherwise. Iโ€™m happy with my own brand of dysfunction … Continue reading Hopefully this is a year of looking up…

A different kind of Masala…

I had a chat with Jasvir Kambo and Iโ€™m going to let you get goosebumps the way I did too. Keep your tissues ready. My tears spilled over. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~   Give a brief introduction of yourself. My parents moved back to Kenya from the UK in the 70โ€™s. I am the second eldest out of four sisters. I was raised and educated in Nairobi. I … Continue reading A different kind of Masala…

Why should I apologise for being alive?

Five weeks ago life changed, circumstances changed, perceptions shifted and I became a person who started thinking of โ€˜what ifsโ€™, something I donโ€™t usually indulge in. I know Iโ€™m not the only one who has been affected after the incidence at Westgate but I also know each one of us has a unique journey that we embarked from that day onwards. It wasnโ€™t just about … Continue reading Why should I apologise for being alive?

The Month of August and us Kenyans

You know exactly where Iโ€™m going with this because it seems like every other Kenyan I speak to these days is living in fear of this month and that we are totally jinxed because everything seems to go wrong for us in this month. Iโ€™m not a superstitious person so Iโ€™m totally against this train of thought. There are eleven other months in the year … Continue reading The Month of August and us Kenyans

Let’s Save Eric… Please

We always talk about how wonderful our lives our, what our kids get up to, the new cars we buy, the festivals we celebrate and post just wonderful pictures on Facebook to share with our friends. Eric might not be able to do any of that. Eric has Burkittโ€™s Lymphoma- a dreadfully aggressive but curable form of cancer. He is currently in India undergoing treatment … Continue reading Let’s Save Eric… Please